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Little T J
Tomorrow your mum will give you birth,
Though you won't be staying here on earth,
Lifted by an angel's wing,
To a place where you can hear the blue bells ring
Where stars and rainbows last forever
Your memory we will always treasure.
Love from Erica x
Trevor Junior born at 20 weeks. This was written by his Nan the night before he was stillborn.







