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When a Baby Dies: The Experience of Late Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Neonatal Death
Nancy Kohner, Alix Henley

Paperback: 256 pages (11 June, 2001)
Publisher: Routledge, an imprint of Taylor & Francis Books Ltd; ISBN: 0415252768
Essential reading for anyone affected by a baby’s death – whether parents, families or those caring for bereaved people. Using stories from parents, it offers support and helps in understanding the impact and feelings which follow a stillbirth or neonatal death

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Miscarriage: Women's Experiences and Needs
Christine Moulder

Paperback: 304 pages (11 June, 2001)
Publisher: Routledge, an imprint of Taylor & Francis Books Ltd; ISBN: 0415254892

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Miscarriage: What Every Woman Needs to Know
Lesley Regan

Paperback: 333 pages (1 March, 2001)
Publisher: Orion mass market paperback; ISBN: 0752837575
Information about recurrent miscarriage by a female obstetrician leading this area of work.


Understanding Pregnancy Loss: Perspectives and Issues in Care
Christine Moulder, MSW CQSW

Paperback: 280 pages (21 January, 1998)
Publisher: Palgrave; ISBN: 0333721454
Parents’ experiences of maternity care when their baby has died are used in exploring the dilemmas in providing good care, and suggesting ways in which practice might be improved. An excellent book for health professionals wishing to improve standards of care; also a good book for women and their partners/families to help understand pregnancy loss.

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Books Recommended by parents

When Your Baby Dies (The Hope & Healing Series)
Gamino, Cooney, Huntley, Klug

Paperback: 48 pages (April 2002)
Publisher: Augsburg Fortress Publishers; ISBN: 0806643552
Part of a series on bereavement from the US


Always Precious in Our Memory: Reflections After Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Neonatal Death
Kristen Johnson Ingram

Paperback: 96 pages (May 2003)
Publisher: ACTA Publications; ISBN: 0879461594
Scripture based support for parents


Trying Again: A Guide to Pregnancy After Miscarriage,Stillbirth and Infant Loss
Ann Douglas, John R. Sussman

Paperback: 336 pages (1 October, 2000)
Publisher: Taylor Trade Publishing; ISBN: 0878331824
Advice with a US obstetric perspective


Empty Cradle,a Full Heart: Reflections for Mothers and Fathers After Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Infant Death
Christine O'Keeffe Lafer

Paperback: 31 pages (1 October, 1998)
Publisher: Loyola University P.; ISBN: 0829411739
Bible verses pertaining to loss


When a Meeting Is Also Farewell: Coping with a Stillbirth or Neonatal Death
Ingela Radestad

Paperback: 116 pages (17 September, 1999)
Publisher: Books for Midwives; ISBN: 1898507759
Written by a midwife whose first baby was stillborn. Aimed at maternity care professionals. Includes midwives experiences.


At a Loss: Bereavement Care When a Baby Dies
Alison Stewart BSc RGN MSc RM RHV, Ann Dent

Paperback: 272 pages (24 October, 1994)
Publisher: Bailliere Tindall; ISBN: 0702016829
Helpful for health care professionals


Silent Sorrow: Pregnancy Loss: Guidance and Survival for You and Your Family
Ingrid Kohn, Perry-Lynn Moffitt, Isabelle Wilkins

Paperback: 320 pages (10 February, 2000)
Publisher: Routledge, an imprint of Taylor & Francis Books Ltd; ISBN: 0415924812
Recently republished.


Love, Labour and Loss: Stillbirth and Neonatal Death
Jo Benson, Dawn Robinson Walsh

Paperback: 152 pages (July 1996)
Publisher: Scarlet Press; ISBN: 1857270630


Brief Lives: Parents' Writings
Alison Wood (Editor)

Paperback: 60 pages (1998)
Publisher: National Childbirth Trust; ISBN: 1870129911


Empty Cradle, Broken Heart: Surviving the Death of Your Baby
Deborah L. Davis

Paperback: 279 pages (May 1996)
Publisher: Fulcrum Publishing; ISBN: 1555913024
Often recommended by parents


Family
Susan Hill

Hardcover: 304 pages (23 February, 1989)
Publisher: Michael Joseph; ISBN: 071813169X
Personal story about the birth of the author’s daughter at 24 weeks and time in SCBU in Oxford until her death.


Help, Comfort and Hope After Losing Your Baby in Pregnancy or the First Year
Hannah Lothrop

Paperback: 296 pages (4 February, 1999)
Publisher: Element Books Ltd; ISBN: 1862043795
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Losing a Child (Lion Pocketbooks)
Elaine Storkey

Paperback: 48 pages (20 August, 1999)
Publisher: Lion Publishing; ISBN: 0745941303
Short book offering spiritual encouragement

The Lone Twin: Understanding Twin Bereavement and Loss
Joan Woodward

Paperback: 300 pages (October 1997)
Publisher: Free Association Books; ISBN: 1853433748


Parenthood Lost: Healing the Pain After Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Death
Michael R. Berman (Editor)

Hardcover: 224 pages (December 2000)
Publisher: Greenwood Press; ISBN: 0897896149


If it happens to you: miscarriage and stillbirth - a human insight
Karina Colgan

Publisher: Farmar; ISBN: 0950929565


For helping children

Helping Children Cope with Grief: Facing a Death in the Family (Overcoming Common Problems)
Rosemary Wells

Paperback: 110 pages (26 May, 1988)
Publisher: Sheldon Press; ISBN: 085969559X
General book about bereavement as it affects children – not specific to baby loss


All Shining in the Spring: The Story of a Baby Who Died
Siobhan Parkinson, Donald Teskey (Illustrator)

Paperback: 96 pages (1995)
Publisher: The O'Brien Press; ISBN: 0862783879
Written by the author to help her own son cope with the death of their new baby at birth,

For clergy


MISCARRIAGE, STILLBIRTH & NEONATAL DEATH
Neville Smith

Publisher:Church House Publishing; ISBN 999900096
Guidelines in Pastoral Care for clergy and Hospital Chaplains. Second edition published in 1993 was revised by the Revd.Neville Smith for the Churches Committee for Hospital Chaplaincy

NOT OUT OF MIND
Althea Hayton

April 1998.
Publisher: Wren Publications; ISBN 0-85305-441-X.
A comprehensive guide for anyone who wishes to provide services of prayer and memorial for families bereaved by miscarriage, stillbirth or neonatal death. Also useful for infertile couples. Twenty one individual model liturgies for every situation.

Published poems

Elizabeth Jennings: FOR A CHILD BORN DEAD.

Seamus Heaney: ELEGY FOR A STILL-BORN CHILD

Ben Jonson: ON HIS FIRST SON

Andrew Motion: AFTER SEPTEMBER 11