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Dates and anniversaries
Certain dates and the days leading up to them may be particularly difficult at work. These can include the anniversary of your baby’s due date, and of his or her death. Many bereaved parents feel particularly sad at family festivals such as Christmas and on other occasions when families often get together, as well as on special days like Mother’s Day and Father’s Day.
You may want to consider booking a day’s leave on dates that you know are likely to be especially difficult for you. This can take the pressure off and perhaps give you an opportunity to do something different or visit a place that has special meaning for you







